The Life Of ‘The Other Prince William’, A Tale Of Forbidden Love And Tragedy

You may think you’ve heard it all when it comes to the British royal family. The lives and loves of the people in this institution are well documented. But are you familiar with the tale of romance and tragedy that was the life of Prince William of Gloucester? The adventures of “the other Prince William” are the stuff legends are made of, but his devastating fate makes him a tragic figure in the history oft the royal family.

A royal life cut short

Many of us may never have even heard the name Prince William of Gloucester before. Yet at the time of his birth, this son of the House of Windsor was no less than fourth in line to the British throne. He sat behind his cousins, Princesses Elizabeth and Margaret, and then his father, Prince Henry.

William was the grandson of King George V, who was also the grandfather of Queen Elizabeth II. William was the first paternal nephew born to his uncle, King George VI. Sadly, William also became the first of George V’s grandchildren to die.

“A dazzling young man with a great future of promise”

Prince William's demise was under heartbreaking circumstances, no less because the royal was only 30 years old at the time. In a family known for their longevity, William's death came as a huge shock. And yet during his earlier years, he was far from a tragic figure. The prince was athletic, passionate, and loving. His short life was full of adventure and romance.

But to modern audiences, William remains an obscure figure... if they've heard of him at all. A British documentary about his life was called The Other Prince William, which says much about his status in the minds of modern audiences. According to royal biographer Christopher Wilson, he is “the royal family’s forgotten star.”

An unusual start to life

William was born in Hertfordshire, England, in December 1941, while World War II was raging. William’s father — Prince Henry, Duke of Gloucester — was unable to be at his son’s birth due to his wartime duties. Needless to say, it was a chaotic time for the royals.

This was only five years after King George VI's unexpected ascension to the throne. But despite the war, it was imperative for William's christening to go on as normal, and so the location of the christening was kept secret at the time due to the global conflict.

His godfather was the King

Prince William’s baptism was certainly an occasion befitting a royal baby. His mom, after all, was Princess Alice, the Duchess of Gloucester, while his godfather that day was no less than King George VI. Queen Mary, the widow of King George V, was his godmother. The event brought together a who’s who of eminent British royals at that time, despite the war.

Princess Helena Victoria, Queen Victoria's granddaughter, and Major Lord William Montagu Douglas Scott also served as William's godparents, among others. If anything were to happen to Prince Henry or Princess Alice, William would be in good hands.

Princess Elizabeth's pageboy

Fortunately, Prince Henry lived to meet his son, and the pair went on to forge a close relationship. Although William grew up among the terror of war, he was also part of some of the most important days in British history. For William, the most notable event of his early life came in 1947.

This was when the then-six-year-old held the position of page boy at the wedding of a famous relative. William took on the honorable role at the nuptials of Princess Elizabeth and Philip Mountbatten, who would go on to become Queen Elizabeth II and Philip, Duke of Edinburgh.

William's riches-to-riches story

Six years later, a tragic event — the unexpected death of his uncle and godfather, King George VI — once again gave William a front-row seat to history. He watched up close as Princess Elizabeth was crowned Queen Elizabeth II. As the new monarch’s first cousin, William was a bona fide royal.

He was brought up with the privilege you’d expect of someone in his position. The boy studied at Wellesley House College, a preparatory school in Kent, U.K. This was followed by Eton College, perhaps the best-known school in England due to its long relationship with royals.

A promising young student

Don't be fooled by his privileged upbringing, however; William was as bright as his fellow college students. At school William proved himself to be a capable student and sportsman, and he would remain so for the rest of his life. When he finished school, William was accepted into Cambridge University, where he studied history.

Later, the prince attended the prestigious Stanford University in the United States. Before long, William was plagued with the question we all have to face, whether we're royal or not: what should we do with the rest of our lives?

Seeking out adventure

Upon finishing his education, William joined a merchant bank. Perhaps his time spent at Stanford, where he studied business and political science, was what made him take the job at the bank. But William wasn't one to stay in one place for very long.

Soon enough, he changed careers and joined the diplomatic service, becoming only the second modern royal to become a civil servant. William’s first posting was to Lagos in Nigeria. In 1968 the prince was sent to Tokyo. A keen flyer, William actually flew his own aircraft to Japan.

Health complications

Just before William traveled to Japan to take up his post as second secretary in the commercial department, the prince decided to check in with a doctor. For some time, William’s skin had been turning yellow, a sign he was suffering from jaundice — caused by what, though, he wasn’t sure.

At that time, any discoloration of the skin was a reason to worry, even if William himself wasn't prone to panic. He ultimately decided to see a doctor not because of his own fears, but because his mother requested that he do so before he traveled to Japan.

A long-buried genetic disease

There were all kinds of explanations for the prince's yellow skin, such as inflammation of the liver or an obstruction of the bile duct, but none of these illnesses seemed to fit the symptoms. William was examined by a Royal Air Force doctor by the name of Dr. Bellringer.

Based on William’s symptoms, which included jaundiced skin and painful rashes, Dr. Bellringer made a careful diagnosis — but his opinion was controversial. Apparently, the problem was something that had long been linked to the British royal family. In fact, it’s been suspected as the cause of apparent madness in King George III.

A notorious royal illness

Dr. Bellringer’s diagnosis was a condition called porphyria, a rare hereditary disorder mainly affecting the skin or nervous system. The doctor knew of a theory that was being proposed at the time that several members of the British royal family had suffered from this condition throughout history. Yet Dr. Bellringer stated that he had reached his conclusion independently of this line of thinking.

Later examinations of William reached the same judgment. But by then, he was in remission from the disease. The existence of porphyria within the royal family had long been a mysterious possibility. After all, not only George III was thought to have had it, but Mary, Queen of Scots as well.

Finding love with Zsuzsi Starkloff

Soon enough, though, William's health issues took a backseat to his love life. That same year, William met an individual who would become one of the important influences in his life. Her name was Zsuzsi Starkloff, a former model and air stewardess who immediately caught his eye.

Zsuzsi was glamorous, worldly, and beautiful, but there were other elements to Zsuzsi that ultimately made it difficult for the couple to forge a life together. Zsuzsi was born in the Hungarian capital of Budapest. However, at age 20, she left her homeland behind and went to the United States, where she soon became a citizen.

Meeting her second husband

First Zsuzsi became a model in New York, mainly so she could care for her child, whom she shared with her first husband. However, she soon changed tack and began working as a flight attendant for Overseas National Airways.

The company no longer exists today, but it was while working for the airline that she came across a pilot named Ed Starkloff. Swept off her feet by the American pilot, the flight attendant ended up becoming Mrs. Ed Starkloff. The newlyweds simply weren't meant to be, however.

When Zsuzsi met a prince

Although Zsuzsi took her husband's name and moved to Japan, the marriage failed. Zsuzsi became an English teacher in Japan, but she also kept modeling. Yet again a single mother in a foreign country, Zsuzsi beat the odds and ended up becoming the face of Revlon in Japan.

Her face was known far and wide... just like the man she crossed paths with in 1968. It was in 1968 that her life took an unexpected turn in the form of a prince. If she thought she was a famous face beforehand, she was in for a shock!

Cinderella and Prince Charming

This prince, of course, was William. The couple met at a cocktail shindig, where William started to call her “Cinderella” straight away. The pair were quite taken with each other, and the next day Zsuzsi sent a note directly to the British embassy. “Dear Prince Charming. I have a slipper missing. Would you like to come to a party?” the letter read.

With chemistry like that, how could a romance not blossom? William was immediately taken by her daring attitude. Sending a note to a royal working in the British embassy was quite the thing for a twice-divorced Hungarian refugee to do.

Zsuzsi vs. the Crown

But Zsuzsi had little inkling of what being a prince in the faraway land of Great Britain really meant. She also had no idea that she would be considered a controversial love interest for a close relative of Queen Elizabeth II. She may have been well-traveled, accomplished, and independent, but in the eyes of the Crown, these weren't always positive qualities in a potential royal wife.

But these were all qualities that the crown could go on to embrace... if it weren't for Zsuzsi's status as a divorcée and as a non-Briton. At first, Zsuzsi didn't worry about these challenges.

American outsiders

You see, in the early days of the relationship between William and Zsuzsi, there seemed to have been little thought of future complications. The pair were smitten with each other, and that's all that seemed to matter. “He was quite a man,” Zsuzsi later told Christopher Wilson, a royal journalist.

She sang the praises of Prince William, calling him “Very manly. Very passionate. And mature beyond his years.” What seemed like a straightforward romance to Zsuzsi, however, was actually much more complicated to the Prince. He knew how his family felt about outsiders — especially those from America.

A history of American divorcées

After all, William was not the first — nor the last — British royal to fall under the spell of an American divorcée. In fact, they had quite a consistent history of it. In 1936 King Edward VIII abdicated the throne to wed a twice-divorced U.S. citizen by the name of Wallis Simpson.

And Prince Harry, the grandson of Queen Elizabeth II, married American divorcée Meghan Markle in 2018. Although both instances were separated by 80 years, the public — and the royal family — reacted poorly to the marriages. And in between these two scandals, Prince William and Zsuzsi were faced with a huge decision.

"I knew it was doomed"

Were they willing to stake their reputations — and that of the royal family — on their romance? With things getting serious between the couple, William began sounding out his parents about the suitability of his belle. The prince was eager to know if Zsuzsi would be accepted as his wife.

They undoubtedly hoped that the old-fashioned beliefs of the '30s would have dissipated by the '60s. But old beliefs die hard. "They were against it," Zsuzsi told Wilson. "Totally against it. It came as no shock — I was older than William, divorced, and of a different religion. I knew it was doomed."

She was an "unsuitable" match

It's true that Zsuzsi was seven years her royal boyfriend’s senior. She was also Jewish. Those truths, combined with the fact that she was a divorced single mother, made her an unsuitable choice as a royal bride. By modern standards, these are pretty flimsy reasons not to be able to marry someone.

But according to 1960s royal standards, Zsuzsi wasn't only an unsuitable match, but a potentially dangerous one. At this point, you see, Prince William was 9th in line to the throne. And despite the unlikelihood of his ever becoming king, it was still deemed important for him to choose a wife who could be suitably "royal."

William had a royal obligation

As far as he may have been from the throne, William still had royal blood, which meant he had an automatic destiny to fulfill. Even more so in the 1960s than now, the British royal family was ruled by history and protocol. William was obliged to fulfill his duties as a member of the House of Windsor...

This meant putting aside his own feelings for the benefit of the monarchy. So marrying someone that the family deemed unsuitable would have been a very complicated and difficult decision to make. Yet William was smitten.

A friend remembers William's true feelings

How could one possibly choose between their heart and their own flesh and blood? Shigeo Kitano, a friend of the prince from that era, later shed some light on the Prince's feelings at that time. According to You magazine, Kitano once said, "Prince William was obviously deeply in love with [Zsuzsi]. She was very beautiful with large brown eyes and long auburn hair."

"When she smiled, she had a big dimple. She conversed in flawless Japanese and was clearly a very clever woman." It isn't hard to imagine how Prince William could have fallen for her, but it is hard to imagine how he could've made such a difficult decision.

"The relationship overshadowed everything"

Ultimately, William understood the reality of the situation. His birthright was to serve the Crown, not his heart. William’s love for Zsuzsi — and the knowledge that he would never be able to marry her — weighed heavily on his shoulders, and those closest to him couldn't help but notice the toll it took on him.

As the prince’s school friend Giles St Aubyn remembered, "The relationship overshadowed everything else. It resulted in a period of great anguish for him, involving disagreements with his friends and family." You see, just because William understood his family's feelings didn't mean he was ready to accept them.

Margaret the spy

William was determined to keep his relationship with Zsuzsi going for as long as possible. But rumor has it that the royal family began to conspire against the relationship, and it's often said that one of the chief instigators was the Queen herself. What the Queen didn't know, however, was that she had a potential traitor in her midst.

Princess Margaret, the Queen's sister, was not 100 percent on Elizabeth's side. The Queen sent Princess Margaret to Japan, seemingly on state business. Although she had other responsibilities penciled in, Margaret’s trip was partly planned to assess the situation developing between William and Zsuzsi.

How she truly felt about the relationship

Princess Margaret, who was no stranger to opposition from the Queen on her own romantic pursuits, seemingly met with William and Zsuzsi with an open mind. And it's been said that Margaret appeared to like Zsuzsi after their first meeting. As William’s love interest herself later recalled of Margaret, "On the surface she was friendly."

Margaret later told William how she truly felt — or so it seemed. "She told William, ‘I’m not surprised you’re in love with her,’ and we all had dinner together," Zsuzsi later explained. Yet behind the scenes, things were moving quite differently.

She advised him to "wait for a bit"

Remember: Margaret was also sent to Japan to feel out the seriousness of the relationship between William and Zsuzsi. And even though she allegedly liked Zsuzsi enough to compliment her, she wrote something much different to William.

A few days into Margaret’s visit to Japan, she sent her cousin William a letter in which she expressed caution. “I was pleased to have the opportunity of a quick word with you,” Margaret wrote in that particular note. “I do think you would be wise to wait for a bit, then come home and see how everything looks.”

William's job was like a "straitjacket"

Margaret's consensus was for William and Zsuzsi to hold off on making their relationship official, advice that was no doubt inspired by her own controversial relationship with Peter Townshend earlier in her life. William’s boss — a man named Sir John Pilcher — was also enlisted by the royals to spy on his charge.

With the net tightening, the Prince fled with Zsuzsi to the United States. “We were in love, passionately in love,” Zsuzsi later said. “William wasn’t going to be pushed around by some officious diplomat. He wanted to escape, to get away from the straitjacket his job had become.”

Finally free in the U.S.

In the United States, William and Zsuzsi embarked on a trip. Finally free from the pressures of the Crown and the watchful eyes of the royal family, the couple's relationship deepened. It wasn't long before the couple adorned rings that William had presented to his lover.

“We did a lot of wonderful things together during those weeks,” Zsuzsi remembered of that time. “And for the most part [William] wasn’t recognized. He relished the anonymity — it was wonderful for him not to be bothered by people.” Of course, this anonymity couldn't last forever.

William was contacted by the Queen

William may have been mostly anonymous in the U.S., but it was a much different story in the U.K. Alarmed by the possibility that they may be losing their relative to an unsuitable match, the royals knew they had to act fast. William ended up being contacted by the Queen herself.

She gave him a strange assignment: to represent Her Majesty at an official event in Tonga. Reluctantly, the Prince went and was then obliged to head home to look after the estate of his then-ailing father. Just like that, William and Zsuzsi were separated by thousands of miles.

A forced separation

Although William's friends always said that he had a fun-loving and kind personality, it couldn't have been easy for the Prince to return to the U.K. without his partner. Now back in Britain, William took on the royal responsibilities expected of a man in his position. And yet, he still had time to pursue one of his main passions.

Ironically, flying had been a pursuit that he’d shared with his former lover Zsuzsi. He may have had to leave her back in the States, but he could still enjoy their favorite activity. Flying not only made him feel closer to Zsuzsi, but it reminded him of happier times.

The Prince was a keen competitor

William had long been interested in planes and piloting, even before he met Zsuzsi. He’d become an enthusiastic member of the flying club at Cambridge University when he was a student. The Prince was also a keen competitor, befitting of his energetic lifestyle that also saw him develop interests in skiing, ballooning, and scuba diving.

Clearly, William was an adrenaline junkie. He wasn't afraid of risks, a personality trait that can be seen in his duty-defying relationship with Zsuzsi. Without her by his side, William dove into the world of competitive flying.

The Goodyear International Air Trophy Race

At that point, William was more than just an adrenaline junkie — he was a genuine pilot. Not only was he President of the British Light Aviation Centre, but he was also a licensed pilot. So no one thought to worry when, towards the end of August 1972, William signed up for a light aircraft competition.

It was the Goodyear International Air Trophy Race. The prince, who owned several aircraft, was all set to compete in his Piper Cherokee Arrow, a single-engine aircraft. Crowds gathered to watch the event at Halfpenny Green Airfield in England.

An unexpected tragedy

William — in the company of a fellow pilot and friend named Vyrell Mitchell — took to the skies to wow the 30,000 or so spectators. It was supposed to be a fun, exciting day for the spectators and for the competitors, so when the prince's plane buckled in midair, it almost didn't seem real.

But it was real: tragedy struck almost immediately on take-off. The Prince — who had more than 700 hours of flying experience — lost control of the plane. The aircraft banked, clipped some trees, and crashed, immediately bursting into flames.

He was only 30 when he died

Despite their love and experience for flying, William and Mitchell couldn't regain control of the aircraft. Thousands of people watched in horror as first responders frantically worked to douse the flames. Any hopes of either pilot surviving the crash were dashed when the first responders examined the wreckage: both men had been killed in the crash.

The prince was just 30 years old at the time of the tragic accident. Although William was ninth in line to the throne, his demise marked a devastating loss to the royal family. They hadn't only lost a prince, but a brother, cousin, and friend. The nation mourned the loss of a vibrant and adventurous soul.

"He wanted us to be together"

And as the royals mourned the unexpected loss in the U.K., someone else mourned across the pond: Zsuzsi Starkloff. During the final months of his life, had William paid any attention to the woman he’d once loved? As it turns out, he had. Zsuzsi later recalled, "He wrote me a letter."

In the letter, William opened up about the predicament he and Zsuzsi were in — and his true feelings on the matter. "In it he said he wanted to come to New York and talk to me, to see if there was something we could do. He wanted us to be together," Zsuzsi revealed.

He never gave up hope

William, it seems, hadn’t given up hope that he could one day be with the love of his life. Alas, we will never know if the first cousin of the Queen would have acted on his impulses. The crash that robbed the Prince of his life also took away any possibility of a marriage between William and Zsuzsi.

It was a union that would have rocked the British Royal Family to its core. William's death clearly changed Zsuzsi's life forever as well. The loss haunted her throughout the rest of her life.

She never married again

Zsuzsi Starkloff never married again after the death of her beloved William. She wore the ring that the prince had presented to her until the day she died. A director who met Zsuzsi later in life recalled her demeanor. “There was a sadness about her, a regret,” stated Brian Henry Martin.

But according to Martin, Zsuzsi didn't only mourn her own loss. “Her sadness was about the loss of William — and that he never had his own life. That he never had his own children.” Zsuzsi mourned the life that William could have led had he not died so young.

Prince William's namesake

Prince William of Gloucester’s legacy is a strong one, but to this day, not many young people know his name — or that he even existed. According to royal expert Christopher Wilson, “Prince William of Gloucester was arguably the most glamorous royal of the 20th century. Tall, sporty, and handsome, he was a role model and all-round hero for a young Prince Charles, who named his first son after him.”

Yes, the Prince William we all know today can look back on his namesake with pride. And if he ever needs a role model, he knows exactly who to emulate.

Adventure and duty

Even though the Queen's cousin died over 50 years ago, he still serves as a role model to the current heir to the throne, Prince William. As today's Prince William continuously deals with the stresses caused by the press and his own feuding family, his namesake could serve as a beacon of hope: it is possible to find happiness within the confines of the royal family.

You just have to find a balance between adventure and duty, as the first Prince William always strove to do. Perhaps the life of this obscure British prince is a movie waiting to happen. After all, it’s a life that deserves to be remembered.